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Happy new year dear readers… I hope you all had a wonderful new year party with your friends and family! This is my first day back to work in 2018, today, I’m going to share something about tanric massage session: how to prepare for a tantric massage?

Prepare Yourself

It is best to dedicate a whole day to your Tantra experience. So choose a day when you are free, you don’t need to run errands and you can devote your entire self to the experience. And please talk to me before the massage session, if there is any particular information you want to share about yourself or about any medical conditions.

I recommend that you retain from ejaculation and sexual intercourse for 24 hours before and after the session, so you will not arrive to the session with depleted energy. I also recommend that you eat only light food before and after your session and drink sufficient but not too much liquid. Refraining from using strong perfumes, after shaves or scented body lotions is also advised as these can get in the way of relaxing into the experience for both yourself and me.

After your session has finished it is important to just relax and observe the new sensations in your body and mind, to let all the sensations you have experienced wash over you.

Prepare the Environment

Music, oil, candles, incenses, colours…

It is important during a Tantra session that all of your senses are involved and awakened. So it is vital to create a space to practice that is visually and emotionally stimulating.

For example to stimulate your aural senses soft music played in the background can take your mind to different places. To excite your visual senses, bright colours and candlelight can either be stimulating or calming for your eyes depending on the required experience.

Incense and essential oils I use affect your sense of smell and open up your energy centres. During the Tantric experience even your sense of taste can be influenced, with delicious snacks to delight the tongue – such as soft, succulent fruits like fresh grapes, strawberries or dried fruits like raisins and figs etc we always keep for our guests. Or you can even bring along a bottle of champagne (wine) and have a glass before session start.

London is one of the major cosmopolitan cities where it is all happening. London is the heart of the financial world and a large number of multinational corporations have their headquarters in London. Hectic corporate life causes a lot of stress for all those executives, managers and decision makers. Therefore it is absolutely necessary to unwind regularly as a ‘relaxed individual’ performs better.

Relaxation is often synonymous with massage. And body massage is a great way to relax and get rid of stress. Everybody has his or her own way to unwind: playing golf, a relaxing night at home, going out for dinner with friends, a night in the pub or for those who want it a bit more spicy… a night at Stringfellows London.

The alternative way to release and unwind is a full body massage. Many medical experts tell that the ultimate way to relax is having an orgasm regularly. So when you follow doctor’s orders you may opt for a spicy, highly erotic sensual stress releasing massage performed by a sexy, nude masseuse. It’s not a bad recipe and it offers an instant cure!

So when you will follow ‘doctor’s recommendation’, you have to find a place to go. Or find a London massage service that is specialized in visiting massage in London, also called outcall massage. Outcall massage simply means that the masseuse will come to visit you; in the privacy of your home or hotel room.

If you browse the internet and enter keyword phrases as erotic massage London, body to body massage London, naturist massage London or visiting massage in London you will find a lot of options.

Assuming it is not convenient or not discreet that the masseuse will visit you at your home or hotel in London, you need to visit the masseuse in her massage studio, which is often her home or an apartment or flat where she works. This is called incall massage and London is notorious for its large number of apartments or flats where girls offer a variety of massage services.

The principal of the incall massage service in London is that you telephone the masseuse, make an appointment and go there at the scheduled time.

But in a lot of those flats where incall service is offered, the girls often offer more than just massage… Moreover the masseuse is often not skilled or trained to provide a serious sensual body massage.

However, I do admit that a percentage of the girls in those flats are absolutely good at providing a full body massage and will often do it very sensual. Still I believe that chances are high that you end up with a pretty and sexy girl from one of those ‘under-developed countries’ who is only capable of doing a quick back rub and some hand job. Her real talent is providing straight sex, which is obviously something you don’t come for.

How can you avoid these situations? How can you make sure that you find a masseuse who does a good job, who knows how to knead and treat you well?

In all honesty, that is very hard. But to enhance the chance that you will meet a real masseuse, trained and skilled and very capable to provide a sensual erotic stress releasing massage is to discuss your massage needs over the phone upon making your appointment.

Clearly state your needs and tell that you do not need penetrative or oral sex. That you absolutely need a proper body massage including stress release. If the masseuse is not offended by your questions and sounds very confident and is very clear what she will and what she will not do, and also claims that she will make sure you will leave very happy, then follow your instinct and go.

In the case that you stay at a London hotel and like to have an erotic body massage in your hotel room, you need outcall massage in London. The principal of outcall massage is that the masseuse will visit you in your home or hotel in or around London. This can be very convenient as when the massage is finished you do not need to go out. Instead you can continue to be in your blissful state of total relaxation.

It is obvious that a visiting masseuse for practical reasons can not carry a mobile massage table. Therefore massage will take place in your bedroom, on your bed, which is actually the best way to enjoy an erotic body to body massage.

Outcall, also called visiting or mobile massage comes at a price. Often the masseuse works for an agency and travel expenses (both ways) will be added to the bill. The fact that you deal with an agency does enhance your chances to be treated by a professional and skilled masseuse.

Although there is a number of massage agencies in London who go for the fast buck, you will have a reasonable chance to select a visiting massage service by browsing their web site and keeping your fingers crossed.

The reliable ones do aim for your repeat business and the way the phone is answered by their operators will tell you a great deal about their method of operation. Also, the number of years an agency is in business is a very important factor in this industry.

Again, make sure that the visiting massage agency of your choice indeed does offer professional erotic massage. A lot of escort agencies in London and the UK advertise itself as a massage service, but actually are sending you an escort girl.

We here at Erotic Massage Temple London were the first agency in London that specialized in visiting or outcall massage. We provide clients with a sublime erotic and sensual massage experience in London. We employ well trained and skilled masseuses and exclusively provide visiting or outcall massage in the greater London area.

The visible success of our London massage operation has lead to an influx of imitators and competition. I admit that some of those agencies provide excellent service. Price wise some agencies are ‘exceptionally cheap’ while others are ‘ridiculously expensive’. It is for you, customer to discover the right price-quality ratio.

I estimate that there are about 25 serious agencies in London that specialize in sensual and erotic body massage. They all claim to be market leader or ‘the number one in London’. I’d rather say “first discover the rest and then come to the best”.For us the customer comes in the first place!

Call us and discover the real deal!

Have you ever enjoyed an erotic massage, tantric massage or sensual massage in London?

Sensual Massage and Sexual Massage, Neither of these are sexual services but both could assist any person to improve his intimate relations with his partners.

There are many reasons for an adult to develop barriers on their intimate relations with others. These could be cultural, educational, psychological, faith/religion or bad experiences. A Sensual Massage and a Sexual Massage could help to dissolve those barriers and help us to explore our sexuality and/or body in order to achieve a healthy intimate relationship with others.

You have probably heard more than once about studies centered on the discovery of sexuality in an infant. Without getting into many details, those studies are based on the discovery of your sexuality and the self-exploration of your body with a pure mind, as if it is the mind of a child where there is a total absence of censorship. A child’s mind does not have a perspective on what is wrong or right, his references to value the actions are pleasure or pain, what makes him feel good or what does not.

It is when we grow up and we go through education by parents, teachers and religious powers that we start obtaining the perception of wrong and right. Just bear in mind, we are talking about sexuality. According to Foucault, those perceptions of wrong and right are constructed by powers in order to obtain a control, and the history of sexuality and/or the concepts of sexuality date from the 17th century.

With a mind prior to the 17th century we can not catalogue sexual behaviors; with a glance to history we can identify homosexual behaviors in many cultures, greeks and romans among others, but we do so based on the studies, patterns and categories of a modern society. For greeks and romans, for example, a man could explore his sexuality with an woman and no one would say it was a unallowed experience because they did not know what human energy was. Freud was one of the first to come up with a category of these behaviors and since then many things have changed, up to the point that nowadays we can question many of those categories.

Today we not only carry around those constructed categories and a censorship of our own, not just the weight of what we learn and have been taught, as well as the weight of a cultural tradition, not just what we think but also what our parents, grandfathers thought about what was right and wrong. We do not only have to question what we learn as well as what they know in order to start with a clear mind, we have to question ourselves as well as who really knows what is right or wrong or even if there is any right or wrong. Who is holding the truth, is there any unique universal truth on her hand?

As a babe, we discover our body by sensations, touching, and when we grow up someone tells us that is not right. Sensual Massage is a passive action where the receiver discovers again the power of touch and the stimulation we obtain by just letting another person, the masseuse, stimulate our body. We are somehow connecting with this inner child, a mind without censorship. Sexual massage is even more direct, there is an interaction but, as well, it is more physical than a sensual massage.

The full body to body massage in London is a sensual experience. When we talk about sensuality it is very common to relate it to only sexuality and we are wrong to do so. Sensuality is related to the senses, any stimulation of the senses, such as taste, sound, smell, touch, is a sensual experience, and in a sensual massage session we achieve to stimulate all the senses in order to provoke a catharsis. An orgasm is a form of catharsis; during a sensual massage session we build through stimulation a tension, excitement through to the moment of the orgasm, which is the reason why, many times, a male could easily achieve an orgasm without any manipulation of his genitals.

The masseuse could use her body during the Sexual Massage, you will feel her weight on your back and the pressure of his body over yours, and on that note he will start moving and constructing phrases (massage movements and combinations of those) in order to stimulate your sexual energies and work over your body and mind. The contact with the energy between masseuse and client is total and could reach intimate levels impossible to achieve without the use of the body, both client and masseuse could get aroused which means both sexual energies are getting connected and growing into one. If the masseuse does not get aroused, it does not mean this is not happening, as many masseuses, depending on their level of practice and intensity of their inner development, get aroused on a mental level without showing or expressing it on a physical state, but believe me, the sexual energy is there and is happening.

OK, a female masseuse has a arousing, but do not get confused. A arousing or a physical expression of the masseuse’s sexual energy does not mean anything. As I said it could happen or not for many reasons, but if it happens this does not mean there is going to be intercourse between masseuse and client.

Why London Sensual Massage and Sexual Massage are not a sexual service? Easy, because this is not what you are paying for. This does not mean that you have to pay any extra, it means that you are not paying for it. Therefore, if it happens or if the level of intimacy between the masseuse and the client escalates to an intercourse between them, it is always by personal consent. When you go to an escort you are paying for a sexual service and therefore there is an understanding when you contact him that intercourse is going to take place, but in the case of a masseuse there is no such understanding. You are paying for massage therapist’s time, his skill as a masseuse, and whatever happens on the top of that is by mutual consent not because it has been contracted, the same that has not been charged, cannot be demanded.

There are lots of erotic massage studio in London, UK, however, not every studio offers high standard services, if you want to find a nice massage parlour or studio in London , you can visit some trusted directories: LMB, Tantric Massage Guide, or we also recommend you come directly to us, we at Erotic London Massage offers best experience for you.

We have a saying in China which will translate as “you will catch more flies with honey than with vinegar”. As a client, a charming, well educated, respectful approach to the session with an erotic masseuse at London will always get you further than a demanding attitude, because at the end we know what we offer, what has been contracted, and demanding something which has not been stipulated will not get you very far from where you should be standing.